Andrea Pora

Specialisation · Pillar

Anxiety & overwhelm

The body learning to settle
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Anxiety is the body and mind staying braced for a threat that may no longer be there — showing up as overthinking, restlessness, difficulty resting, a tight chest, or a sense of never quite catching up.

How it shows up

It rarely arrives as one big feeling. It's more often a background hum: shallow breathing you didn't notice, a tightness in the shoulders, a mind that keeps drafting and re-drafting the next thing. It can look like high performance from the outside and feel like quiet exhaustion from the inside.

How I work with it

Rather than only managing symptoms, we work with what's underneath: the nervous system that learned to stay alert, and the beliefs and patterns that keep it switched on. As your system learns it can settle, the overthinking and the bracing have less to do.

Is this you?

If any of these land, you're in the right place.

  • My mind starts the day before I do, and rarely lets me catch up.
  • I can rest only when everything else is done — which is never.
  • I look 'together' from the outside, and feel switched-on from the inside.
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Common questions

Will I just learn coping techniques?
Techniques can help — and we'll use some — but we also work with what keeps your nervous system on high alert in the first place.
How long before I feel less anxious?
Many people notice their nervous system softens within the first 4–8 sessions. Deeper change takes longer and is a different kind of work.
Is this the same as anti-anxiety medication?
No, and the two aren't in competition. Medication is a medical decision with your doctor; therapy works on the underlying nervous-system and meaning patterns.

Why this practice is safe to try

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